Category Archives: Loss of a Spouse

Mourning a Former Spouse: Disenfranchised Grief

Mourning a Former Spouse Dear Dr. Neimeyer, My ex-husband and I were married for 25 years, together 28. We raised four children together. He was charming, sociable, affectionate, intelligent and silly. We enjoyed numerous good times. Toward the end, however, he became abusive and I made excuses to stay. After he took out his anger

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Coping with multiple losses

Dear Dr. Neimeyer, Why is it so hard? I lost my sister in the spring of 2013, then my husband a month later, then my son two months later 2013. It’s been a losing battle I just don’t know how to handle this. Phyllis     Dear Phyllis– When a person has a litany of

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